I recently had a table at the Community Health Fair at Alameda Hospital. I advocate teaching children the words that describe a feeling. In my office, I am aware that many adults do not know this vocabulary. I decided to create a game for those who chose to stop at my table.
On a board, I had the words for 30 feelings. In a bowl, I had the definitions for these words. A person took a slip out of the bowl, and tried to identify the feeling. I also had a bowl of candy so that those who played the game were rewarded. Notice, one did not have to guess successful to take a piece of candy. Trying was rewarded.
A man came up and took a piece of candy. I told him he needed to play the game before taking the candy. He said, “I will not play the game.” I told him to put the candy back in the bowl. He gave me a look, but did so.
As he walked away, I turned to the vendor at the next table and said, “People need to not cross the line.” She laughed.